Enhance A Relationship – Learn How To Talk Dirty To Your Partner

Although it may well seem to “be a bit too tough to do” or just “something you don’t do” in general, using dirty talk in a relationship can be done with the intention of doing more than just titillating your partners libido.

For those relationships where the sparkle has dimmed or the fizzle has burnt out, learning how to talk dirty to your partner can move you back into the unexpected, adding a slight zing to a relationship that might be in need of a change of scenery, the experience of something new.

But you do have to learn how to talk dirty to your partner the right way, not the wrong way. Right way equals looks of amazement and, potentially, lust. The wrong way equals looks of disgust, puzzlement and an early trip to a relationship counselor!

First rule of business when talking dirty? Assess what your partner would be comfortable with and don’t deviate from that

If your guy or girl is used to you helping out at the church social each week and watches you baking cookies for the neighbors, (or if they actually do the baking themselves!) then having you suddenly trip out a string of expletives and lustful stories as you snuggle down together under the duvet is likely to make them reach for the phone and the nearest help line!

You know your mate. You know their likes and dislikes so you should be able to work out what they would find enticing and exciting. Don’t go for brazen harem stuff first, think slow and steady courtship type approach with a bit of adult flair!

Work out something where you know they’ll feel safe, warm and intrigued and build their interest and desire slowly.

As you talk, move in towards them, allowing them to feel the heat from your body, the smell of your perfume and the warmth of your breath as you almost whisper to them provocatively.

As you talk, carefully watch their reactions. If they relax and sink into what you are saying, then you have the level of erotic v comfort just right. If they tense and try to flee or just lie stiffly and have a nervous look on their face, you have either pitched into talking dirty too strong or you haven’t reassured your partner with the right amount of closeness and intimacy needed for introing something this radical and new into your daily life!

Warm them up – make them aware of just how electric you can be and you’ll find the combination of your closeness and your suggestive talk will really get them straining at the bit to hold you.

After that – it’s totally up to you what you do next!